✅ Diving in the Indian Ocean with manta rays and turtles! A beautiful journey under the sea with all these creatures is truly unforgettable! Kinilig ako haha 🐢😍💙 Thank you Dive Octopus 🐙!!! Conquered my fear this time!
별님들~ 누구나 컴플렉스를 가지고 있죠
컴플렉스를 극복하는 방법을 읽다가
마음에 와닿는 대목이 있어 별님들과나누려 해요
자신이 가진 컴플렉스를
그 컴플렉스와 정 반대로 행동하면
극복할수 있다는 연구결과가 있어요
사람들과 어울리지 못하면
처음보는 사람들과 더 대화를 하고
웃는 모습이 안이쁘다고 생각되면
억지로 더 크게 웃고
이마가 넓은게 컴플렉스면
이마를 더 까며,
몸매 라인에 자신없는 분들은
더 몸에 붙는 옷을 입는 겁니다
신기하게도 정 반대로 행동했을때
그 컴플렉스가 자신감으로 돌아오는경우가
많다고 해요 놀랍지요? *반복을 통해 무의식 수준까지 학습하라
무의식 수준까지 반복하면
컴플렉스는 더이상 감춰야할 대상이 아닌,
내 자신감의 원천이 되지 않을까요?
Overcome your complex
And put it as your confidence
행복한 하루되세요 별님들♡☆
주일에 너무 노출 한 사진 죄송~풉
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If you're looking to be her hero, you should start looking elsewhere. She doesn't want a hero. She wants a best friend. A person who loves her for her and a person who isn't trying to "put her back together." She has come to terms with her brokenness. She has realized that no matter what, her past is her past, and it has helped her become the strong woman she is today. She doesn't want a man who goes around thinking he can fix everyone.
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He knows how to love and he knows how to love with everything he is.
A man who only wants to "save" her is a man not ready for a mature relationship. He is a man who doesn't understand how being "saved" doesn't change what has happened to you and it doesn't make it hurt less.
She wants a man who understands what pain can do to a person, and how it is okay to have been broken by someone you loved.
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Because even though she doesn't need to be saved, she does want to be loved. Article by Nicole Clements.