🍆 Softness 🍆
When men are given permission to experience s*xuality from a place of softness it's actually possible for them to experience what it's like to be penetrated by his partner energetically or with his partner's hands, or body to body. This is known as energetic s*x and can be felt in the body of lovers as almost a meditative state of bliss.
The love neurotransmitter oxytocin can begin to flow between partners, and lovers can experience a much deeper heart connection with less thrusting and movement. Think about bringing the focus to soft movements, breath, eye gazing and body-to-body connection. How much can you feel everywhere?
Men who have lived their lives with erecti0ns and have depended on the "hard on" to get it on, need to learn other ways of having penetrative s*x. We can penetrate our lovers in so many ways; we just have to learn how. We simply don't teach men how to have penetrative s*x without a hard on - and it can be amazing for the receiver to have something different than the usual offerings.
Men with soft c0cks can learn how to "take" their partner just like a man with a hard one. And there are opportunities to learn all kinds of ways to be the best lover you have ever been. Losing your ability to get a hard on or sustain one for a long period of time might actually be a gift to your partner, especially if you both can see it as an opportunity to learn what is available in the spectrum of s*xuality and love making.