Terkait masalah ini Allah sampaikan dalam Al-Quran: “(Dia) Pencipta langit dan bumi. Dia menjadikan bagi kamu dari jenis kamu sendiri pasangan-pasangan dan dari jenis binatang ternak pasangan- pasangan (pula), dijadikan-Nya kamu berkembang biak dengan jalan itu. Tidak ada sesuatupun yang serupa dengan Dia, dan Dia-lah yang Maha Mendengar dan Melihat.” (QS Asy-Syura : 11) .
وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Artinya : “Ya Tuhan kami, anugerahkanlah kepada kami jodoh (isteri-isteri) kami dan keturunan kami sebagai penyenang hati (kami), dan jadikanlah kami imam bagi orang2 yang bertakwa” (QS Al Furqan : 74)
Sometimes achieving goals can be accomplished by asking yourself one simple question:
𝒲𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒾𝓈 𝓈𝓉𝑜𝓅𝓅𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓎𝑜𝓊?
And with that answer you are able to start overcoming obstacles 🧗🏼♀️.
That dream you’re chasing you, 𝒲𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒾𝓈 𝓈𝓉𝑜𝓅𝓅𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓎𝑜𝓊 from going after it?
Of course, once your shadow side comes out to play while it stands up for you, so too will the other person's. This is where people show you their true colours. Some people fight fair, and others get more and more underhanded the closer they get to losing. Their ego will do anything to win. At this point, you should have a clear picture of exactly what kind of person you're dealing with and you can make a clear decision on whether or not you want people like that in your life. Do not be afraid of confrontations. Some confrontations are necessary for people to establish some common respect. You don't have to play the role of peace keeper, and you don't have to play the role of sacrificial lamb.
You deserve to get what you want from life too. You deserve to get it peacefully and harmoniously, but if someone is walking all over you repeatedly, it's ok to bring the old shadow out to honour your boundaries.
Once the dust settles, they will know to take you seriously the first time you ask. Unless they're completely stuck in a cycle within themselves, in which case, it may be time to release them from your orbit to stop any emotional or energetic drain on your precious energy and being.
Click on the link to my blog in my bio to read the full post titled 'The Power of Boundaries' and let me know in the comments if you have any thoughts on the subject.
Type “MYSELF” if you are a person, who just aims to give more than taking, and love more than hating. But yes, also choose to set themselves a healthy boundary ensuring they do not get drained out of their energy for nowhere.